The field guide
Better phone habits start with one real situation.
Pick the part of your day that needs attention. Each guide includes a worked example, adjustments for common obstacles, and a worksheet you can print.
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01 / For families
A family phone agreement you can actually use
Build a specific, fair phone agreement with an example conversation, exceptions, and a weekly review worksheet.
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02 / For students & families
Make homework easier to start—and easier to return to
A practical homework routine for school-device use, distracting messages, difficult assignments, and useful breaks.
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03 / For families
Move the last phone check out of bedtime
Plan an evening phone handoff with charging arrangements, urgent-contact exceptions, and a simple morning review.
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04 / For educators
A classroom phone routine without a daily showdown
Design clear device transitions, private reminders, accessible alternatives, and a classroom media-literacy exercise.
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05 / Understand the science
Dopamine and phone habits: what the shorthand leaves out
Understand the limits of “dopamine hits,” distinguish habits from diagnoses, and examine phone-use claims more carefully.
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Put a guide to work
Build an agreement you can edit and print, or use a complete lesson with fictional app scenarios and student response sheets.
Dopamine is part of the story
A phone-use report cannot measure brain chemistry. Begin with the behavior you can observe, the reason for it, and what it interrupts. Our science guide explains why a habit is not a diagnosis and how to read claims about screens carefully.
Explore the full guideNotice what invites another check
Look at a familiar app: does it give you an obvious stopping point, or does another item start automatically? Try choosing the end point before opening it. This is an exercise in noticing design, not a measurement of a dopamine hit.
Explore the full guideMake the habit specific
Write down one moment: “I opened the chat when I got stuck on a paragraph.” That gives you something to work with. Clarifying the assignment may be more useful than setting a blanket rule for every app.
Explore the full guideTry one change for seven days
Choose one shared situation, agree on a rule and its exceptions, and pick a review date. A week is a convenient trial period, not a promise to reset the brain. Keep the routine small enough that you can tell what helped.
Explore the full guideTeach the classroom transition
Start with school policy, accessible alternatives, and a clear first task. The classroom guide includes a private reminder script and a paper exercise about persuasive design, without requiring students to share their personal phone use.
Explore the full guideUse device tools to support an agreement
Start with the settings already available on your device. Decide what needs to remain accessible before changing limits. Check the official instructions for your device and test the result together, including urgent contacts and necessary school or accessibility tools.
If a limit repeatedly gets bypassed, ask what the person needed at that moment. A technical restriction cannot clarify an assignment or resolve a difficult friendship. Use it alongside a conversation.
Read the evidence with its limits
Our guides distinguish source-supported background from suggested routines. A professional advisory is not a trial of our worksheets, and an association in a study does not automatically establish cause. Follow the source links to examine the underlying scope.
- American Academy of Pediatrics: the 5 C’s of media guidance
A framework that considers the child, content, calming, crowding out, and communication.
- American Psychological Association: adolescent social media advisory
Recommendations on development, support, and protecting sleep and physical activity.
- National Institute of Mental Health: the teen brain
Background on adolescent development, learning, stress, and sleep.
- National Institutes of Health: treating addiction
Background on dopamine’s roles. Substance-use research does not establish that phone use is equivalent to drug use.
Reading books about digital habits
Books can offer useful perspectives, but a compelling narrative is not the same as a scientific consensus. Check which claims have primary sources, whether the author distinguishes correlation from causation, and whether the advice fits your circumstances.
Read our guide to evaluating claims